Listen to this carefully!!!!! You could be drop dead gorgeous, be successful, be one of the best people in the world. But you will never be good enough for someone who is not ready for a relationship. This is the truth…..Nothing will change their mind. Some people just don’t want a relationship and it’s true that some people will not want a relationship with you. It doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with you. Some people don’t mesh like this.
Don’t feed into the lies you read on the internet about making someone commit…You can’t make anyone commit to you who doesn’t want to commit to you. The kindest thing you can do for yourself is to move on and find someone who is looking for the same thing you are.
I was in a situation right after my divorce where I was not ready for a relationship. I was just getting my life together and getting over my marriage. A guy decided he liked me and started perusing me aggressively. I felt horrible but I broke his heart because I just wasn’t ready…Nothing he could do would have made me ready then because of the place I was in…It took years before I was really ready.
Don’t waste your heart or your time on someone who is not on the same page as you…..You won’t change their mind or their heart.
“Don’t make me fall unless you are ready to catch me” – Unknown Author