Stop Chasing People

Listen to what I have to say very carefully…..If they wanted to be in your life then you wouldn’t have to chase them. People make time and put forth the effort for people that matter to them. If they wanted you around, you wouldn’t have to wonder if they cared.

It is the same old story. At first a person goes out of their way to text you or see you. Then somewhere down the line they stop texting and stop having time for you. The interest to have you around is no longer there. You know the signs all to well…..

  1. Are you the one always texting first or texting at all.
  2. Are they always to busy to be bothered.
  3. Do you wonder if they care at all because now the effort is no longer there.

Most people want you in their life temporarily because the benefit from it in some way. Once they get whatever they want or you no longer have value to them they move one. These are the people you don’t want in your life. They don’t really see your value or really see you.

Dos if feel like your doing all the work to have someone around you or in your life? If so then stop texting and delete their number. They are wasting your time. You are wasting your time. Whatever interest they at one time had for you is gone. You are no longer important to them enough for them to make the time for you.

Stop chasing them. If they wanted to be there you wouldn’t have to run after them because they would be chasing you back. You ever heard the saying “The right one won’t run.” It’s true.

Love don’t run……..

So many times in the past a guy will text me then disappear only to reappear an month later over text. I won’t bother replying because if he was really interested then he would be texting in between trying to get to know me. Not all the time but enough that I know he is really interested in me. There is also a difference between someone who makes time to text you and someone who texts you in their free time.

People who don’t make the effort to be in your life is excess baggage. Hanging on will make you miserable. So just let go. Delete the numbers, texts, and pictures. Move on.

“Don’t chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people – the ones who really belong in your life – will come to your. And stay.” – Will Smith

Published by Coach Jeanie

Self Love and Self Care Life Coach Odessa, Texas

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